Are You Desperate For Love?

Everyone craves to love and be loved in return. This is a basic essential of life. But how much do we love ourselves? How often do we acknowledge the qualities that we have instead of desiring to be someone else? Some people think that the only way to be happy is when people love them and accept them is not true. Love is like a mirror. It is a reflection of who we are. So if you don't love yourself, you wont be able to love someone else and be loved in return.

Sometimes we go to the wrong places searching desperately for love and end up getting hurt or heartbroken. Some have pre-conceived ideas of what love should be and when they get hold of it, they cling tenaciously to it. This is desperation! And it doesn't stay. It doesn't last because desperation has a way of pushing everything it touches away especially love. The things you are desperate about sense it and runaway. So stop being desperate. Be gentle with life

There is a secret to attraction and that secret deals with been able to appreciate yourself first. In appreciating yourself you must begin to see yourself in a different light; begin to act, sound and look good and be confident of yourself. When you begin to feel good about yourself, you radiate a form of energy that enables other people to see you in the light in which you see yourself.

One simple truth about love is that you can't make people stay. You can't force them to love you. You can't even make them change their minds about the things that are important to them; the things they want more than they want you. But you can be happy loving yourself and accepting others as they are because Love is in you; in your smiles, your laughter, your cares, your genuine concerns, it is all around you! It is your passion and your strength. It is life itself. It is also your genuineness towards other people.So don't worry about been loved. Just love yourself. Give yourself a treat. You deserve it!

Above all, you will always feel love if only you are conscious of the fact that God loves you unconditionally.

 

These are desperate times, what with war going on all over the globe, global warming, fuel prices skyrocketing, men throwing children off of bridges - it makes it easy for despair and desperation to set into your life! But how do you make it DIFFICULT for them to enter your life? Trust me, I know what it's like. I lost my job back in September 2007, and haven't even gotten past the interview stage (if I'm lucky enough to get an interview!); my boyfriend is moving to North Carolina from Michigan, where I currently reside (he has a job waiting for him there); and it just doesn't look like things are going to get better any time soon. So what's a gal to do?

First of all, a key phrase in the above paragraph is "any time soon". A problem I believe modern Western society has today is the demand that it all happen RIGHT NOW. That's an expectation that is just way too high! So, let "Patience" be your watchword. Very few things happen instantly in the Universe; realizing that is the first step to defeating desperation.

What else can help besides having more realistic expectations of life, yourself, and those around you? Well, how about Faith? POSITIVE, loving Faith, that isn't selfish or hurtful. Some people gather with others in a central place (church, synagogue, mosque, field, et al.) to share their Faith and to strengthen it. Others prefer to be solitary and share their Faith with their Higher Power (God, Allah, Yahweh, et al.) The key point here is to believe and trust Whomever it is you have Faith in, no matter what method you choose to do it, and to respect all others whose Higher Powers and methods differ from yours.

(I am presuming that your preferred choices do not involve hurting others whose methods differ from yours. That is very counterproductive; but then, if you feel that way, you probably don't get desperate, so why are you even reading this?!)

Lastly - LAUGH!!! Look for the humor in everything, even things that we have been programmed to believe have no humor in them! Laughter is a wonderful thing, not just for the mind and soul, but for the body as well. And if you can laugh at yourself, even in what you feel is your darkest hour - you're on your way to defeating despair! Good luck!

If you are desperate because you are in danger, or because you feel that your life is a heavy burden that you cannot keep carrying, you are gradually losing your mind.

What can you do when you are desperate? If you have lost your health, if you don’t have money, if you were betrayed, or if you are facing any kind of misfortune, you cannot really find any courage to go on.

You may have the same feeling even if you have your physical health, a happy family, and enough money to live well. There could be many causes for your despair. Unfortunately, there are so many dangers threatening your peace of mind that your happiness can only be artificial and hypothetical.

You need a miracle.

Fortunately, I found a miracle that I have been sharing with the world since 1990, when I started curing many people through dream therapy. After following Carl Jung’s method of dream interpretation, I continued his research, discovering the divine origin of the unconscious mind, in which Jung couldn’t truly believe.

I was an artist. My literary talent had linked me with the unconscious mind from the time of my childhood. The unconscious mind produces our dreams and gives us a religious inclination, or artistic talents.

I could understand the meaning of dreams better than Jung, and I could perceive the unconscious sanctity. I had studied in a Catholic school for twelve years.

However, I lost my faith when I was fifteen years old and I suffered a tragic car accident. I recuperated my faith only six years later, when I started admitting the possibility of God’s existence.

Thus, I knew that I had to admit God’s existence after finding true evidence; my atheism made me look for answers for six years. I understood that there were many mysteries that I could not explain. When I recognized the unconscious sanctity, I had a religious attitude. I accepted to obey God’s guidance without objections, recognizing my ignorance and absurdity.

I verified that God was saving my conscience through dream interpretation before my neurosis would become schizophrenia. Otherwise, I would become schizophrenic like my father. I also discovered God’s protection in my own literature. There were many dream symbols in a literary book I had written after suffering from the car accident when I was fifteen years old. When I translated the meaning of the dream symbols found in my romance according to Carl Jung’s method of dream interpretation, I understood that I had to fight against absurdity.

I obeyed the unconscious guidance with gratitude, and I could save my conscience. Follow my example, and you’ll save your conscience too.

You see dreams every time you sleep, even if you don’t remember them. If you’ll give importance to their meaning, you’ll start remembering all your dreams and all their details. You receive free psychotherapy in the dream messages.

Write down your dreams in a dream journal. Then, follow my lessons. I have already given you many free lessons online so that you may verify for yourself how efficient the scientific translations are. Be a good student, and you’ll find salvation from despair, regardless of how serious your problem is. The unconscious mind will help you find health, balance, love, peace, money, friends, life, wisdom, art, happiness, and freedom.